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| Hubby and Wife courtesy photobucket. |
Most men know
their mother wasn’t perfect but because she put up with all their foolishness
they revered her.
One thing they
want in a wife is perfection and they are sure they will find her.
The way it is
suppose to work is all parties are to remain celibate until marriage but for
many that didn’t work.
Even with that
gaffe they still dream on. Miss perfect
is out there and I will find her. When
it seems that everything is right and she must be the one passion numbs the
brain and the biological urges drive you on.
Then sometime as
early as the honeymoon the blinders come off and what I have and what I thought
I had are two different things (this works both ways).
At that point the
goal is to be able to live with her flaws if I possibly can.
Yes it seems
that, “honey-bun has turned out to be stinky-poo.”
While she is
thinking, “What did I ever see in him?” he fails to amuse, really!
While the man
thinks, “Is this what GOD had in mind when he created woman?”
She reads him and
boldly remarks, “Well! Eve wasn’t perfect you know, how could she be for she
was taken from a man.”
But Women on the
other hand can see men’s flaws as soon as they meet them. Sometimes before they meet them for their
mother has imparted Clairsentience knowledge concerning men to them but then
they doubt their inside information and take the plunge anyway.
Then there are
those who are heathen who walk in fear and can’t find a woman who is fit for a
wife so they (using a common term) shack up with them. It is meant to be a temporary arraignment so
they can take a hike anytime they want to.
During the process many times they have
dumpster kids that they dump by moving on and looking for another imperfect
specimen for another temporary situation.
Only those of
like kind will take up with them and live with them while judging their own
self worth to be nigh unto zero.
Do I infer there
are no successful marriages?
It depends on
with what measure you mete. Shall we
grade from the bottom to the top? From
lousy to great?
With all that having been said and you have been exposed
to the trials of matrimony and you realize that marriage is like unto a job. It must be worked at and solutions sought for
each and every problem. It’s not
perfection but a perfecting process we continually experience.
On occasion it may be necessary to “Bring back that
loving feeling” for life is a trial where we are constantly be put upon, in
many cases without cause.
Marriage requires an overcoming life on the part each of
the participants. So what is your desire
is it to be “Happy trails” or “Hit the road Jack”.
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